I have this guy friend at school and we went out two times last year but it didn't work out. Now we are best friends. The thing is that we hang out all of the time and I like him. Everyone says that we flirt alot and we should just go out. I would like to go back out with him but I am afraid things will be the same when we went out before and he will be to shy and nervous to talk to me like last time. Right now we are best friends and we do flirt alot like we always sit by eachother (touching), he lets me wear his watch, and he gives me compliments. Should he stay a best friend of should we try again?

Raquel


Dear Raquel,

It sounds like the two of you may have a huge attraction to each other. Shyness and nervousness sometimes go away with maturity. Since you two are already so close, not much might change in your relationship, except you will be able to allow yourselves more flirting and touching:)

If you do not date him again, will you always wonder, "What if"?
The answer to that question should be able to help you make a decision.

Good Luck!
Jill

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